{"id":20834,"date":"2022-12-30T17:45:57","date_gmt":"2022-12-30T17:45:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/?p=20834"},"modified":"2023-01-01T15:44:31","modified_gmt":"2023-01-01T15:44:31","slug":"what-is-i-havent-talked-to-my-partner-about-hiv","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/20834","title":{"rendered":"What if I haven&#8217;t talked to my partner about HIV?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Hi there<\/p>\n<p>This is a common question we get an so I know your situation is difficult.<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, there isn&#8217;t an easy answer or even a right answer to this.<\/p>\n<p>If you are taking HIV meds and have an undetectable viral load, then at least your prtner is not at risk of HIV. See this link for info on U=U:<br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/i-base.info\/u-equals-u\/\">https:\/\/i-base.info\/u-equals-u\/<\/a><\/p>\n<p>There is never an easy time to tell a partner about HIV and this will be different for every person. Early on can feel too soon if you don&#8217;t know much about someone. Later, there is always pressure for why you didn&#8217;t say something earlier. It will depend on your partners knowledge and views about HIV.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you don&#8217;t have this discussion, not sharing this information can be stressful for you, even when you know your partner is not at risk.<\/p>\n<p>Hopefully, if you both have a real connection, your partnership might get stronger by being able to talk about this. Other times, partners can use this as a reason to not take the partnership any further.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>if ur galfriend is negative and u u ar positive bt da gal doesn&#8217;t knw it ?What can u do<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,36],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-20834","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-topics","category-sero-different-couples"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20834","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20834"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20834\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":20873,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20834\/revisions\/20873"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20834"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20834"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20834"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}