https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/23345<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"I’m scared of telling my partner I have HIV. We have been together for 4 years and have been undetectable from the moment I met him. We have been having unprotected intercourse for a year or two.<\/p>\n
Our relationship is wonderful he is loving and caring. He wants to have children however he has a low sperm count and wants us to do IVF.<\/p>\n
I want to however due to my past relationship I have fears of disclosing my status and afraid it will come up when I go for an IVF. I’m not sure what to do and because I really want to be a mom and I take care of myself to ensure he is not harmed in anyway. Not to mention I have no idea how I contracted it as I’ve only been with 2 people who are both negative and not to mention I don’t even know anyone who is positive like me in my actual life. <\/p>\n
I’ve also been through counseling as in the past I’ve been diagnosed with major depression disorder and Anxiety disorder and have come a long way. I don’t know what to do and feel horrible for not telling him even if I have been undetectable for 10 year<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,41],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23429","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-all-topics","category-support"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23429","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23429"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23429\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":23430,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23429\/revisions\/23430"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23429"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23429"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/i-base.info\/qa\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23429"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}