There are lots of options for support and information. It sounds like you have had a difficult year together and I hope it is getting easier now.<\/p>\n
There is a good organisation called Begin who run lots of different services. There contact details are on their website:<\/p>\n
http:\/\/www.beginwakefield.co.uk\/8.html<\/a><\/p>\n It sounds like you are already doing everything you can by being on treatment. If you would like to talk to someone about treatment options, then you could call the i-Base phoneline<\/a>, which covers all the UK.<\/p>\n HIV is not infectious in saliva and oral sex from an HIV-positive man on an HIV-negative woman would not be thought to put the woman at risk. Your wife’s test results show she is HIV-negative and has been lucky and it is good. If you wife is happy for you to give her oral sex then this should not put her at risk.<\/p>\n With a CD4 count under 200, then it is good you are on treatment. I hope the clinic has been prescribing you an antibiotic called Septrin to protect you from infections until your count gets over 200.<\/p>\n Once your viral load becomes undetectable on treatment (75 is already very close), then your risk of transmitted HIV also drops dramatically. Here is a recent medical report on a study showing this.<\/p>\n