Question
Am I infected?
19 January 2009. Related: All topics, HIV transmission.
A week ago, I went to a strip club and one of the dancers performed oral sex on me. She had put the condom on me before performing oral sex. Also, she kept her breast on my mouth but I did not suck it. I had ejaculated by then in the condom. I came back home and flushed the condom and did see semen in it, which meant that the condom did not break. I am very afraid that I might be infected with HIV. It is my first encounter and I never really wanted to do it. Please let me know your thoughts.
Answer
Firstly, not all dancers are HIV-positive by default. Then, you used a condom appropriately. The way you describe the situation, the chances of infection are very near zero. We, however, advise everybody with an active sexual life to get tested regularly-say every 6 months.