Q and A


Can I have a relationship with a negative partner?

Can a HIV positive person marry an HIV negative person and live together without their partner getting infected ?I’m on medication.


Thanks for getting in touch.

The simple answer is YES. A positive persons  status shouldn’t be a barrier to them having a relationship with someone who is negative. And if this means kids and marriage, then that’s great.

As long as the positive partner is on medication and their viral load is undetectable, there’s no risk of transmission. Please see here: https://i-base.info/u-equals-u/


  1. Lisa Thorley

    Hi T Boss,

    If you’re on medication and your viral load is undetectable, there’s no risk to your wife. Please see here: http://i-base.info/u-equals-u/ And yes U=U is reliable.
    With regards to where you access PrEP in Nigeria, you’ll need to ask your doctor about this as i-base are UK based.

  2. T boss

    Av been on medication (cipla) for a year 2months, am 30year old and my wife is negative 28years old we av been using condoms ever since we knew our status. we want to start making babies what is d best and safest way to conceive without pass d virus to my wife and d baby. Secondly were can I get prep in Nigeria, is U=U reliable


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