Search Menu
Q and A frontpage

Question

Should I wait 17 days to test or pay privately?

Hi

I fell so lost. I put myself in a very risky situation. I have been to my GP and they suggested if i was this nervous they would order me a multiplex test. I searched online and called the lab where they do the testing. They said the test is 99% accurate after 10 days however I have to wait 7 days from the day I send the sample back, so that would be thursday they get it and then if it takes 5 days to do – 11th august then 1-2 days for post? bringing my exposure to exactly 3 weeks, on that day?

Should i just test next monday with a duo for free – at 17 days would that give me a good indication or should i wait? or go for that test please any advice is greatly appreciated – this test is also costing me 96.00 which i don't mind but its the time frame.

Thanks

Answer

The vast majority of people who test for HIV have been at very low risk of catching HIV.

Over 99% of tests each year in the UK produce HIV negative results.

While it sounds like you are worrying a lot about this now, HIV is a very difficult virus to catch sexually, especially if you do not know your partner was even HIV-positive. Even then the risk is estimated as perhaps 1 in 300 for anal sex any 1 in 1000 for vaginal sex. These are only estimated figures just to give you an idea that the risk from one exposure is generally low. If your partner was HIV-positive and on treatment, these risk would be even lower still.

I don’t know anything of your circumstances, but medically, nothing would be different if you found out you were positive a few days earlier.

Whether you want to spend £100 on a private test is your personal decision, but in the UK there is no need to do this, as routine fourth generation tests such as DUO will detect 95% of infections by 4 weeks after exposure.

12 comments

  1. Lisa Thorley •

    Hi Paul,

    Having sex with someone who’s status you don’t know always carries some risk. Therefore, if you aren’t aware of the guys status, the best thing to do is to take a HIV test. For more on testing please see question one here:

    https://i-base.info/qa/what-are-the-most-asked-questions

    If something like this happens again, you could always take PEP. Here’s some info on PEP:

    https://i-base.info/qa/5255

  2. Paul •

    Hi there, I’m very nervous. I was at a christmas party last week and when drunk the party moved to a gay nightclub in Vauxhall London! (High prevalence of HIV). This club had a area for sex on premises. I like a drunken fool met a guy and we went in there. I can’t remember much but i am very on top of wearing protection but being drunk i can’t actually remember this part ( i can’t see myself doing anything without), i was passive and i am very sure that we had sex for a few minutes then i stopped it. He did not ejaculate inside of me for definite. However just before this night out i suffered with a bad cold for two weeks and by the party night i was feeling myself again. The party was 1 week ago. I have since developed another cold, small ulcers in my mouth and a general feeling of tender all over. Should i be concerned?