Question

What if your father is raping you?

If your father is raping you and if you are telling your mother she’s on yr father’s side cause he is a owner and head of the house.

Thanks for your question – and I am sorry that you are having such a difficult situation.

I have no way to contact you becasue you posted the question anonymously – but I hope that you read this.

Firstly, I am working in a project in the UK. I don;t know about your situation – even your age – but it sounds like you need support and help.

Is there anyone in your wider family who you trust and can talk to.

This website in South Africa has lots of information:
http://rapecrisis.org.za/rape-in-south-africa

They also have a 24-hour phoneline: 021 447 9762.

Please can you call them and explain your situation – and please get back to me if you think I can still help.

You shoul not have to have to stay in this situation – but you will need to speak with people who can help.