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Question

My boyfriend tested positive, why do I keep testing negative?

Hello there,

My boyfriend tested HIV positive in December last year we have been together since March 2010 and have been having unprotected sex up until he was diagnosed. I was tested twice between December and January and have been negative. How come I haven’t contracted the virus? Also his viral load is 300,000. Is this something that dosnt happen often in a gay relationship?

Answer

Thank you for your question.

I am sorry to hear of your boyfriend’s recent diagnosis. How are you both coping with this?

It is possible that you have remained HIV negative even if he is positive. For a full explanation why you should follow this link.