Question
Are there websites to meet other HIV positive people?
27 March 2012. Related: All topics, Living with HIV long-term, Support.
I am an HIV positive heterosexual British woman. I had chosen the single life since my diagnosis five years ago. But now I feel ready to start dating again and would love to find a partner that I can maybe share a future with. I refuse to sit on the shelf anymore and give in to a solitary future because of my HIV!
Unfortunately, I have not had very good reactions when I have disclosed my HIV status and have been the victim of ignorant gossip as a result. So I was wondering, are there any free dating sites for people living with HIV in the UK?
Answer
It is good that you want to start dating again. The shock from an HIV diagnosis often makes people want to wait before dating again. Sometimes it takes time to build up the strength and confidence to want to do this.
Deciding to meet other positive people has a lot of advantages and one of the easiest ways to make contact with people is to use the internet.
The community forums at poz.com include a personals section that has free registration and many thousands of international users (including from the UK). This might be a good place to start.
You do not have to live alone just because of your HIV status. There are many people in a similar situation just like you, but they have managed to find someone that they can share and enjoy their lives with. This is a very encouraging and a positive step that you have made towards your future.
Community-based sites are likely to be better that commercial sites that require fees. Most community sites though include options to access more feature by subscribing.
If the forums here are not helpful, you could start a discussion to see whether other members have found other sites helpful.
There are lots of online resources about internet dating that talk about how to do this safely. This includes taking care when giving out personal information and if you get to the point of wanting to meet, to do this in a public place, with a friend knowing your plans.
The check list at this link is a good overview if you are new to meeting people by internet.
Hi Bigalz, I appreciate you wanted to connect but I am sorry i-Base doesn’t publish personal details that would let people do this.
Hello, @Narrin and Brendamax, feel free to reach out to me via email. Will be glad to be a friend and keep you company. Might help you overcome loneliness and the effect of stigmatization (if you are experiencing it).
Hi Narrin, thanks – i-Base doesn’t run a service for people to connect. Try:
http://poz.com
Am single Mam of one daughter am 24 years old from Uganda looking for love someone of my status
Hi BBB, thanks, I hope that you find someone to share your life with. I’m sorry that i-Base is not able to be a contact service.
Hi , I’m 38 woman, with two girls. I’m looking for someone with the same HIV status as me, but who takes care of their health. Let’s take this journey together and comfort each on lower days.
Hi Janet, thanks, I hope that you find someone to share your life with. I m sorry that i-Base is not able to be a contact service.
I’m 49 yrs single and looking for a honest man between 47-52 for a serious relationship
Hi Brendamax, please see this link to learn more about HIV and risk:
https://i-base.info/qa/11844
Am 28yrs looking for someone who is understanding to be friends and make life even better out of stigmatization we find out here